To what extent can we control what happens in our life? It is a complicated question. It seems as if there are an infinite number of things outside of our control. So many challenges that we have experienced have been brought about from things that we had no say in. I think there is a place for a “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” mentality while still acknowledging the limitations of one’s material reality.
While we may not be able to control the hardships we face, we can however be deliberate in our response and reaction to such circumstances. Rather than be a victim to circumstance we must constantly strive to be the best versions of ourselves. A good attitude can be the difference between overcoming a struggle and forever being a victim to it.
I think this is great advice for those in compromised positions. It is both inspiring and helps encourage making positive changes despite the overwhelming reasons to not.
However, I believe the issue comes when this advice is used as a replacement or stand-in for structural change that would actually serve to help people. The physical world and the limitations that come with it are hindrances to people in their progress. The lack of achievement due to circumstances of their material reality can cause them to be perceived in negative ways. Traits like laziness and lack of intelligence are attributed to people who live in poor situations as a result of this mindset that puts so much weight on individual action and attitude.
Like many other issues, a balancing act is required. Obviously, no weight being placed on individual action and attitude is a bad thing. However, too much weight placed on it can prevent us from seeing structural failings for certain people who fall between the cracks of a broken system.
I agree that in our society, the amount of focus placed upon individual responsibilities needs to be alleviated.
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