7 - Mel B - Everything Happens For A Reason

               Everything Happens For A Reason 

I'm in between of the whole "everything happens for a reason" phrase. It's hard to be on either side because I can come up with a pretty good argument for both sides but at the end of the day and all the arguments later I will still never be 100% for either side. Yes, "everything happens for a reason" is good because good or bad there will be lessons learned that help you out in buisness, relationships them being romantic or platonic, or real world situations. These lessons will help you learn from the past and help you apply these in your new life and new situations so you don't repeat the same mistakes over and over again or use the good over again and pass on the opportunities. People whisper this phrase to themselves whenever any situation happens to them good or bad but have you ever heard them explain that reason? like Why did it happen to you? and What truly is the reason? It's a question that no one ever has the answer to, and I wonder why. Some people can argue and even me that "everything happens for a reason" some people don't agree with this response because it can be seen as senseless and tragic. Some things that happened are messed up and should have never happened and hearing that it happened for a reason would be more damaging than the actual incident. When you think about certain people you have experienced in your life you hate yourself for allowing them to treat you the way they did. Yeah everything happens for a reason but there's so much that could've been avoided if only they knew how to handle it or if they if they knew what they know now. That's the beauty of it; it could be a blessing or lesson that's why I'm in the middle because it is true, you either learn from the mistake and use that pain to help you in the future or it happens and you use the good and continue to spread it.